Consider whether the person is worth your love or not. Love requires a significant emotional investment. While loving someone is not always a matter of choice, it may be worth taking a look at the connection you have with a given person and thinking how loving them might affect you. While this step may sound like a warning, it’s actually a positive step toward loving them. If you struggle with feeling love, justifying it on a logical basis can be a positive step forward.
- Refusing to be realistic about your feelings may be a sign of infatuation, so be warned.