Building the unfettered relationship
Do you ever wonder why the inconsistency in your lovelife? you ask
yourself series of questions and end up bewildered when you can’t
comeup with an answer? Take a deep breath and ask yourself what you’re
doing wrong. Do you consciously or unconsciously seek to gain control
over your partner? These are questions you need ask and try to be honest
to yourself in your answers because it is way easier to complain and
whine about how your partner has changed than it is to checkmate your
actions, do you appreciate your partner for the little sacrifices? When last
did you hold your partner and say thank you for always been there..or
you’re seeing it as nothing, are you judgemental and self centered?
Wanting everything to go your way, without considering your partners
view? What about respect? Do you forget its place in a relationship?
These are all red flags that needs thorough scrutiny…
Giving your partner the required attention and time…And trying to be
understanding.. Sometimes we complain about our relationships not
healthy as expected yet we forget to work on these things.
Do not leave problems until they are at a point where the relationship is on
the critical list. Change is going to be required to make a difference, so
you will have to ask yourself if you are ready to change cause it might
involve major sacrifices to keep the relationship abay…accept your faults
when you are wrong and while you ask for forgiveness do all you can to
work on it, be tolerant, for you can never find a perfect being, share your
worries instead of being hostile to your partner cause of them, learn to
forgive rather than hold grudges for these are the stepping stones for a
Listen to your partner
Spend time together
Dont play the gender role games, be spontaneous.
Make decisions together
Be willing to change and accept change as it come
Give a helping hand…